Married at 25! Sounds familiar.
Yes, it’s actually quite normal whether you live in a conservative society or a modern one. Many people consider 25 as the ideal age to get married and have a family I like my age
But this preference somehow turns into social pressure. And this social pressure is more burdensome for women.
Throughout history, societies around the world have pushed women to marry early. In some cultures, a woman’s primary life goal is to get married and have children, and if she does not do so by a certain age, she is defective or inadequate. Being expected to marry is one of the most common ways society pressures girls.
And with the advent of social media, this patriarchal mindset has become mainstream. It’s unfortunate that some people continue to spread erroneous and outdated ideas, but it’s very refreshing that some of them even receive the most appropriate answers. bottom.
Twitter user sent a sexist tweet
Recently, a Twitter user argued that women should prioritize getting married before they turn 25. He wrote on Twitter:
Sisters should try to marry before the age of 25. Believe please. After this age, unless you belong to a super wealthy family or make a lot of money, you won’t get marriage proposals, or worse, they won’t. Other than that, no one takes girls past this age seriously.
Sisters should try to marry before the age of 25.
After this age, you will not receive proposals, and in the worst case, you will be refused.
Other than that, no one takes girls past this age seriously.
— . (@Abu Biryani) April 17, 2023
Not only this, he bashed feminists and shamelessly justified his own comments
he added
Don’t let your studies or career get in the way of your marriage. Don’t let feminists eat your brain.look around and see reality
Don’t let your studies or career get in the way of your marriage.
Don’t let feminists eat your brain.look around and see reality
— . (@Abu Biryani) April 17, 2023
He again tried to justify his comments by indirectly blaming the Muslim community.
he added
This is especially common in Muslim communities. Of course there are exceptions. There are no restrictions on men, and men over 40 are more likely to get married if their income is good.it is what it is
This is especially common in Muslim communities. Of course there are exceptions.
There are no restrictions on men, and men over 40 are more likely to get married if their income is good.it is what it is
— . (@Abu Biryani) April 17, 2023
A Twitter user’s outdated mindset led to a barrage of comments that educated him about it
Many offered personal anecdotes about how they found the love of their lives at age 25, or even 30, but before getting married they put education, career, and financial security first. Some urged women to think first. See some of the comments.
When I was 30, I married the kindest, smartest man I’ve ever known in my life. Neither of us were super rich. He is a decent human being looking for his partner, not a maid or Allah Miya Ki Gaai. Pls stop telling women what to do with their lives. https://t.co/aU4GOsHbKZ
— Beena SK (@beenakawoosa) April 21, 2023
Absolute BS.
Don’t get married young. study. work. Earn enough to support the lifestyle you want.
The world is changing and you never know when you’ll need these skills.
Women get married when they are old, just like men. 30/35/40 https://t.co/0TY6e2QVAc— Hana Mosin Khan | Hennasha (@girlpilot_) April 20, 2023
Men who have been rejected and have no chances with women say this most often. Most men prefer like-minded people as partners. https://t.co/NRZw7CuL33
— Mari 🕊 (@rubiestRosie) April 19, 2023
The Mashara brothers have found a new way to spell “A woman with a fully developed frontal lobe will never want me and I know it.”pls make dua for him https://t.co/pmLPb7GkQ9
— Yusra Amjad (@postlovedpoet) April 19, 2023
Sisters, wait until you’re over 25. Get a degree, get a job, invest your money. Also, deny these fools the ability to reproduce… https://t.co/m3jjQ1yngk
— Penthouse Dream (@joserealestate_) April 19, 2023
I recently heard a woman telling her son, “Jawani Deki Hi Nahi, 21 Main Shadi Ka Diya, 22 Main Maa Ban Gaye, Abu Direct Buche Ho Gaye.” I heard of don’t let her be a womanShe’s past her marriageable age because she’s dead https://t.co/b3YDByHb8R
— Abdullah Diwana (@JeanDmello) April 21, 2023
Marriage after this age so that this type of man can be ruled out 👍🏻 https://t.co/zoyz2ETY2Q
— Myra Skywalker (@emaiera) April 19, 2023
Not only is this a misogynistic and narrow-minded view, it is completely untrue. There is no age limit to falling in love and having a successful relationship, so it’s important to ignore societal pressures to judge a person’s worth based on age or romantic status.
Like men, women should be allowed to make their own decisions about their personal lives and relationships without fear of social pressure or judgment.
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