A talented actor, singer, and former RJ, Piru Vidyarthi aka Rajoshi Vidyarthi is an individual and likes to keep it up on social media. However, her ex-husband, actor Ashish Vidyarthi, caught her in controversy when she surprised her surroundings with the news of her marriage. In her exclusive interview with The Hindustan Times, Piru came forward about her personal life. Also read: Ashish Vidyarthi remarried to Rupali Barua at 60
On Thursday, Ashish Vidyarthi, 60, married entrepreneur Rupali Barua, 50, in Kolkata. Pirou revealed that the couple will go their separate ways in 2021 and have been living happily ever since. They filed for divorce last October and have remained friends.
The wedding photos were shocking because few people knew that the two had separated. Was it your mutual decision not to announce your separation?
Piru Vidyarthi: Yes, we didn’t feel the need to tell people about it. We are not interested in broadcasting in the media, PR, or letting everyone know. We are both good friends and have maintained it until now. These 22 years of her life were the best of my life. If you ask him, I’m sure he’ll say the same thing.
He is a great partner and we have traveled together for many years. We had many common interests. Of course, we humans must have different choices, but fundamentally we are so similar that we have never collided. we are still the same. Our son, we have a beautiful son.
Tell me about Alice…
Piru Vidyarthi: Ashish has contributed to the upbringing of our son. He is his friend and guide. It’s often said that mothers do everything for their children, and perhaps that’s society’s perception, or even how they’re viewed on screen. Of course mothers do a lot, but fathers play a big role as well.
Earth currently works for Tesla in Austin. He has all the good things about his father. We have both contributed to the development of the beautiful human being Ars Vidyarti. He is very sensitive, mature, wonderful person and full of humor. He understood everything (between us) brilliantly.
There are a lot of stories on the internet today about you and Ashish… what really happened?
Piru Vidyarthi: Maybe I didn’t notice it before, maybe it existed, but I just didn’t feel like expressing it. My children have grown up and traveled abroad. As an artist, I did what I wanted and no one limited me. However, upon inquiry, I realized my mission, and then I realized that we (me and Ashish) had different hopes for the future. He has the right to fulfill his dreams, whatever he wants to be in the future.
we’ve heard about this. Marriage requires compromise. People end up doing it, we all do. But what many may not know is that it is done behind closed doors. I don’t know how much I’m compromising, both mentally and materially. It is a fine line and cannot be measured. At least I can’t live like that. What he wants is different from what I want and they don’t fit in the marriage. I know people who do that. I’m not saying they’re wrong, but I do see people making lengthy posts about their spouses on social media. Deep down, we wonder how much of the information we see on social media is true. Only they know the truth, right?
In my personal life, I have different needs now. I am unable to meet Mr. Vidyarthi’s goal now.
When he came to us, there was none of the torture or suffering that people have assumed. We are two different humans. For two years we tried to go our separate ways and now he is doing great in his career. I’ve spent the last five years taking care of a lot of backend stuff. In my personal life, I have different needs now. I am unable to meet Mr. Vidyarthi’s goal now.
It must be difficult, especially now that people are trying to find out who did what…
Piru Vidyarthi: This decision would not have been possible without Ashish’s support. He handled it beautifully and made it easy for both of us. He was like, “Let’s do this, let’s do that, then let’s see.” I’ve heard that lawyers often get into ugly fights, but nothing like that happened between us.
I am offended by the interpretations people have of us. This is not fair. Ashish never betrayed me. Even if people thought all he wanted was to remarry. This is a completely false story.
Everyone deserves a second chance at love…
Piru Vidyarthi: Amar Bie Dokal Nei Thai Ami Bie Cortina. Amal Biyar Dokal Hall Amio Kortam (You don’t have to get married. If you had to, you would have married). that’s not what i need. he needs a partner A person cannot be hanged for necessity. he found a good man
When did you file for divorce?
Piru Vidyarthi: We filed a petition together last October. No one is pushing anyone. This was completely mutual. I have spent a very long time of my life being the daughter of Shakuntala Barua and the wife of Ashish Vidyarthi. Now is the time to walk your own path alone. I want my identity, but he didn’t destroy my identity, mind you. I now realize that he sees a different future and I also see a different future.
In this day and age, people agree to go their separate ways without doing much about it, but we just didn’t want to do it. So we decided to stay friends instead. I will always be there for you with my prayers and wishes. I’m sure he’s only thinking about good things for me.